Setting goal is just as difficult as achieving them. Some people don’t make the goals set pretty well because they don’t even know their limit. When you set some goals without limit, then you will feel so down once you fail achieving them. It is not because you are not good enough to do the goals, but it is just you don’t have capabilities in doing them.
More than just skills, you need to have enough confidence for setting goals. Confidence comes when you are sure that you can achieve them. This convincing feeling also comes when you know that you have the competence related with the goals. Failure always makes people to start losing their confidence. Some said that nothing is impossible as long as you keep trying, but sometimes it just doesn’t work if you don’t have qualifications to do that. Here are some ways to set a goal and achieve it with confidence.
Make a Priority
Some people have many goals to achieve in their life and they might stuck in deciding which goal to be pursued first. It is better to prioritize the goals that you think matter the most. If there are some goals, choose the most meaningful one to you. The most meaningful one should engage you to work harder achieving it resulting with improved self-confidence.
Create a Daily Routine
Self-confidence is closely related with self-discipline. When your goals are decided, then you need to break them down to the smallest to create a daily routine. The routine should help you achieve the goals even if you never do it before. Make yourself used to the new daily routine because this will be one of your motivations.
When you are feeling so low to just continue the new routine, tell yourself that the goals are there to come so you need to keep doing this until you get them.
Learn the Competence
The goals you are going to achieve needs proper competence. This is the process of how you can achieve them. By learning the competence, your confidence will be higher. People tend to feel more confident in doing things when they know the competence about what they are going to do. So take your time to learn more and more every day until your level of confidence is full.
Stop Feeling Inadequate
One of the reasons why people fail in achieving their goals is because they feel inadequate. It is much harder to get started when you feel that you are not good enough. No matter how big your goals are, they will be all useless if you don’t even brave enough to start it. Always acknowledge your fullest potential to help you build your confidence and set the goals. Leaving the feeling of inadequacy inside you will just stop you from even setting goals and you will get nothing of your dreams.
Never fear to take actions massively towards your goals because this is the only way you can achieve them. Staying on your place right now will make no difference.